Buying a pearl necklace should be exciting, but with so many styles, colours and lengths available, it can be difficult to know where to start.

Whether you're choosing your first pearl necklace, searching for a thoughtful gift or looking for a timeless piece you'll wear for years to come, understanding what makes a beautiful pearl necklace can help you make the right choice.

At Watermeadow Lane Jewellery, every necklace is handmade using carefully selected freshwater pearls. No two pearls are exactly alike, and that's part of what makes them so special. So here is a guide on how to choose the perfect pearl necklace which I hope will help you now and for buying pearl jewellery gifts in the future.

Here are nine things worth considering before you buy.

How to Choose A Pearl Necklace

1. Choose the Right Pearl Necklace Size

Pearls come in a wide range of sizes, and each creates a different look.

Smaller pearls (around 4–6mm) offer a delicate, understated style that's perfect for everyday wear.

Medium-sized pearls (7–8mm) are incredibly versatile and suit almost every occasion.

Larger pearls (9mm and above) make more of a statement and are ideal for special occasions or those who love bolder jewellery.

There isn't a "best" size—it's simply about choosing what feels right for your personal style.

2. Think About Pearl Colour

One of the joys of freshwater pearls is their natural variety.

Many people immediately think of classic white pearls, but freshwater pearls can also display beautiful soft shades including:

  • Ivory
  • Cream
  • Blush pink
  • Peach
  • Lavender
  • Silver-grey

Choosing a colour that complements your skin tone and wardrobe means you'll wear your necklace far more often.

Natural pearl colours also make wonderful gifts because they're timeless and easy to style. The cream and white shades act as a neutral colour so they are extremely easy to wear with any colour of clothing including florals and busy prints.

3. Consider the Necklace Length

The length of a pearl necklace has a huge impact on how it looks.

Some of the most popular lengths include:

  • 16–18 inches – perfect for everyday wear.
  • 18–20 inches – sits beautifully with most necklines.
  • 24 inches and longer – ideal for layering or creating a more elegant statement.

When choosing a necklace, think about the clothes you wear most often. A length that works with your favourite outfits is likely to become your most worn piece. But remember this is a guide for the average frame. If you are have a petite frame a smaller length may be best, and also a longer length necklace if you have a broader frame. So when buying a necklace as a gift for someone think about these and it will help you get the perfect length.

4. Look Beyond Perfectly Round Pearls

Many people believe only perfectly round pearls are desirable.

In reality, freshwater pearls are loved because of their natural shapes and individual character. This is certainly proven when I see the reactions of customers when they see baroque or keshi pearls that I sell at events. They love the irregular, organic shapes which I call perfectly imperfect - just like us!

Oval, button and slightly organic pearls create jewellery with personality and charm that machine-made jewellery simply can't replicate.

Every handmade necklace becomes completely unique.

"If you'd like to learn more about the different types of freshwater pearls, read our Complete Guide to Freshwater Pearls."

5. Check the Quality of the Pearls

Not all pearls are created equal.

When choosing a pearl necklace, look for:

  • Beautiful lustre (how well the pearls reflect light)
  • Smooth surfaces with only minor natural markings
  • Consistent colour
  • Well-matched pearls throughout the necklace

High-quality freshwater pearls have a soft glow that catches the light beautifully without looking artificial.

6. Pay Attention to the Materials

The pearls may be the star of the necklace, but the materials used alongside them are just as important.

At Watermeadow Lane Jewellery, necklaces are handmade using quality materials including sterling silver and 14ct gold-filled components, chosen for both their durability and timeless appearance.

Investing in quality fittings means your jewellery can be enjoyed for many years with the right care. Hand-knotting pearls with pearl silk is a sign of quality too and gives a pearl necklace a beautiful drape as well as protecting the pearls from dirt, damage and loss of pearls if a breakage were to occur. A pearl restringing service is available at Watermeadow Lane Jewellery and you can read more on that here.

7. Think About When You'll Wear It

Ask yourself where you'll wear your necklace most often.

For example:

  • Everyday outfits
  • Work
  • Weddings
  • Holidays
  • Special occasions
  • Evenings out

A classic freshwater pearl necklace is surprisingly versatile and can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion.

Many of my customers tell me they wear their pearls far more often than they expected and you should wear them as often as you can!

8. Buy Handmade Where Possible

Choosing handmade jewellery means buying something created with care rather than mass-produced.

As an independent jewellery maker, I personally handcraft every necklace, carefully selecting each freshwater pearl before creating the finished piece.

That attention to detail means every necklace is slightly different, giving you something genuinely individual.

Supporting a small business also means you'll receive personal service and advice if you ever need help choosing the right piece and of course a 12 month guarantee and a pearl restringing service is available.

9. Choose Something You'll Love Wearing

Trends come and go, but pearl jewellery has remained stylish for generations.

The best necklace isn't necessarily the most expensive or the most fashionable—it's the one that feels like you.

Choose a necklace that makes you smile when you put it on, suits your lifestyle and is versatile enough to become part of your everyday wardrobe.

After all, beautiful jewellery deserves to be worn, not saved for special occasions.

Final Thoughts

Choosing the perfect pearl necklace is about finding something you'll genuinely enjoy wearing.

By considering pearl size, colour, length, quality and craftsmanship, you'll be much more confident in selecting a necklace that suits your style and lasts for years to come.

If you're looking for handmade freshwater pearl jewellery, I'd love to help you find the perfect piece. Every necklace at Watermeadow Lane Jewellery is carefully handmade using quality freshwater pearls and designed to become part of your jewellery collection for many years to come.

Browse our handmade freshwater pearl necklace collection on the link below or get in touch if you'd like help choosing the perfect necklace or discussing a bespoke commission.

Frequently Asked Questions about Pearl Necklaces

Are freshwater pearls real pearls?

Yes. Freshwater pearls are genuine pearls formed naturally inside freshwater mussels.

Are freshwater pearls good quality?

Absolutely. High-quality freshwater pearls offer beautiful lustre, excellent durability and exceptional value, making them a popular choice for everyday jewellery.

What is the best pearl necklace for everyday wear?

Many people choose an 18-inch freshwater pearl necklace with medium-sized pearls because it works beautifully with both casual and smarter outfits.

Can pearl necklaces be worn every day?

Yes. With sensible care, freshwater pearl necklaces can be worn regularly and often become the jewellery people reach for most.